The below is a list of the preparations we made... some are videos we watched, some are sites we visited, some are lists we made.... they might not be in "order" of how we did them, but I've tried to help them make sense...
I've added at the bottom of the page our list of things that we needed to buy in preparation for Rosalinde.
First preparations
Join the baby center website/app
you put in your due date and they give you weekly updates, newsletters, and useful articles to read... this was the best and most useful thing for us...!
Antenatal Classes
We didn't get offered antenatal classes (due to Covid restrictions) so we ended up looking around for other options and found these on youtube... and these were really great...!
Prenatal Class - Part 1: Prenatal
Prenatal Part 2 - Labour and Birth
Prenatal Class: Part 3 - Postnatal
Prenatal exercises
Rose spent a lot of time on the yoga ball... it helps to open up the pelvis and strengthen her core muscles for giving birth..... you can choose from the many videos in this playlist... Rose found many of them very useful.
Prenatal Yoga and Pregnancy Workouts
Prenatal & Postnatal drinks & supplements
This tea is drank in the months before giving birth to help prepare the mothers body for giving birth naturally
Traditional Medicinals, Organic Pregnancy Tea, Raspberry Leaf, Caffeine Free
This tea is drank after giving birth to help lactation after giving birth
Traditional Medicinals, Organic Mother's Milk, Original with Fennel & Fenugreek, Caffeine Free
We also used the below lactation supplements just in case, and Rose felt that the tablet supplements in particular seemed to work well.
UpSpring, Milkflow, Fenugreek + Blessed Thistle Supplement Drink
Foot and Hand Casting
I did buy this... if you think it's something you would like, this kit is easy to use.....
Luna Bean Deluxe 3D Prints Baby Casting Kit
Keeping Baby happy
Any of these Halo Sleep Sacks are great...!.... but not cheap... we were given a couple... I suggest that you ask for them as gifts from friends/family who want to buy you something. Halo Sleep Sacks on Amazon
We bought a few slings... this one was great for hot weather... it's basically basketball jersey material Vlokup Baby Water Ring Sling Carrier
This one is really nice... natural product and comfortable.... Nalakai Ring Sling Baby Carrier - Luxury Bamboo and Linen Baby Sling
These are really good nail clippers for keeping her nails not like the sharpest knife blades.... we cut her nails about every 5 days at the beginning.... The First Years American Red Cross Deluxe Nail Clipper with Magnifier
Babies like looking at faces... even their own faces... and it doesn't get better value (and it's kid-safe!) than this ikea kids mirror.... DRÖMMARE Mirror
Training Videos to help dad (for fun!)
if you want some fun, this guy's whole youtube video selection is really good....
Choose a baby tracking app (for after she is born)
this was the that we used Babytime App
Learning what to do whilst in Labour
Antenatal Breathing and Relaxation for Labour
Other research articles
These are some of the links to articles that Rose sent me... in some cases we were just sharing thoughtful articles to be able to talk about them and sometimes she was helping fill in gaps in my knowledge, but they are listed here in case they are useful to you also.
10 Baby Care Skills Every New Parent Should Learn
Strange newborn baby facts that are just hard to believe!
10 best fruits to eat during pregnancy
momtruths - Sex before and after birth
What you should eat to have a normal delivery
Staying relaxed during Labour pain
positions to relieve labour pain
How your husband can help you relax during Labour pain
When it's time to go to the Hospital
Important Facts About Childbirth Recovery
After Birth (best to read before baby arrives)
Colic & Reflux
just in case it's useful later, we tried gripe water to fix Rosalinde's colic, and it was kind of successful.. it helped... but didn't really fix it. After a few days we tried these probiotic drops to give her the LReuteri bacteria in her digestive system that many colic babies are missing.. and it really did get rid of the colic. hopefully your baby won't get colic, but at least you know what it was just in case.
BioGaia, ProTectis Baby Drops, For Colic & Digestive Comfort
Colic in babies: What it is, how long it lasts, and what you can do
5 tips for soothing a colicky baby
Montessori Child Learning videos
Tummy Time
Tummy time: Why and how to do it
Prenatal and Postnatal Depression
Perinatal Anxiety: Signs and Support
After having a child, I realized that in the eyes of society mothers can't...
What Children Teach Us About Life
Caring for a newborn baby
The Moro Reflex: Swaddling and Other Ways to Help It
12 tips for bathing a newborn baby
How to give your baby a massage
Baby sleep tips for your newborn to 12 months
Teaching your baby to put themselves to sleep
Games your baby will love from newborn to 12 months.
5 tips for soothing a colicky baby
Tantrums
Tips for soothing a fussing baby
5 Ways To Instantly Stop A Crying Baby
18 Important Things Babies Are Trying to Tell You
Dad holding space during his toddlers Tantrum
5 tantrum-taming secrets from a family therapist
Breastfeeding
Foods to avoid while breastfeeding
Good positions for Breastfeeding
We got help from a lactation consultant visit - to help with hints, tips, and support in our breastfeeding journey - google for lactation consultants in your area.
Raising Kids
How to inspire manners in your child
Harvard Psychologists Reveal: Parents Who Raise ‘Kind’ Kids Do These 5 Things…
How to teach your two year old to read
Here's why I will never force my kids to hug anyone
10 Routines that will strengthen a parent-child relationship
10 things we need to stop saying to our kids
7 signs your child isn't ready to be potty trained so don't even bother
5 manners we forget to teach our kids
11 things you should just let your toddler do
Why Punishment Is Ineffective & What To Do Instead
How To Teach Your Kids To Care About Other People
How to be more patient with your kids
why preschool matters for young children
It’s Science. Dropping negative language improves child behaviour
8 Signs You’re Raising Emotionally Intelligent Children
This is a copy of our baby and toddler list of things that we needed... please use copy and enjoy...!
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